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February 14, 2016

Denver Boudoir Myths

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1. BOUDOIR PHOTOGRAPHY IS PORN: False!

Uh, helllllllll no. I HATE when I hear this. My boudoir is tasteful and classy. Even with my couples boudoir sessions there is never anything that implies a sexual act. Boudoir is FINE ART! Boudoir is for empowering women helping them to embrace their bodies and love themselves! And pornography…. well you know what that is haha.

2. BOUDOIR PHOTOGRAPHY IS FOR FLAWLESS BODIES: False!

Ha! Ladies, let me just get this one out of the way up front – NONE of the women that I shoot have flawless bodies. Every woman has aspects about her body that she is not happy with and not comfortable with. A big part about boudoir is embracing that, and moving beyond it, realizing that you are sexy as you are, the sum of all your parts, what you perceive to be good and what you perceive to be bad.

Beyond that though, my style of photography is designed to make hiding problem areas and imperfections easier. So just because you are looking at images on this site where you may feel like the woman looks flawless, just know that just because you can’t see her imperfection doesn’t mean it isn’t there. I work with all of my clients to make sure that problem areas are avoided and that they are always looking their best.

Looks can be deceiving, and the images you see here are the result of flawless planning and photographic technique, not flawless bodies.

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3.  DENVER BOUDOIR PHOTOGRAPHY IS ABOUT LINGERIE: False!

Look at a men’s magazine or search online for Colorado Springs boudoir photography and you’re likely to see nothing but skimpy lingerie photos. But boudoir photography has evolved beyond skimpy lingerie. I’ve photographed confident women in their pajamas or what they wear when they lounge around their home on a lazy Sunday morning. It’s what they feel good in and it shows. Sometimes, we women feel that we NEED to wear what everyone else wears in magazines, but all it really does it make you feel uncomfortable about yourself which shows in the photos.

4. BOUDOIR PHOTOGRAPHY IS ONLY SHOT ON THE BED: False!

What is boudoir? The term boudoir is a French word defined by Merriam-Webster as “a woman’s bedroom or private room.” You may have only seen boudoir photos that were shot on a bed or only in the bedroom. I find this rather boring. Let’s utilize the entire home, or let’s go outside and shoot in the middle of a secluded open field. These settings will allow you to be yourself and not confined in one room.

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5. BOUDOIR PHOTOGRAPHY IS GOING TO BE ALL OVER THE INTERNET: False!

 In my photo contract with my clients, I state that I won’t share any of their images without their written permission. I respect your privacy 100% and would never break the trust you’ve bestowed on me. What you see online of women I have photographed are clients who have modeled for a specific shoot. And some images are from the client’s actual photo session, which they have granted me full permission to share. Everything I do from start to finish is password-protected.

6. BOUDOIR PHOTOGRAPHY IS JUST A TREND: False!

 Creating beautiful images of women has been around since the Stone Age, we are just using better tools nowadays (haha!). Boudoir photography has evolved from Pinups to Glamour Shots, but one thing has never changed: a beautiful image is timeless.

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7. BOUDOIR PHOTOGRAPHY IS SOMETHING YOU DO ONCE: False!

I have a handful of clients who have returned for a second and even a third Denver boudoir photo session by me. They tell me it’s addicting because they feel pretty good about themselves and they get tastefully done pictures to show for it.

8. BOUDOIR PHOTOGRAPHY IS JUST A GIFT FOR YOUR MAN: False!

 While many of my clients are brides who come to me for a Bridal Boudoir surprise for their groom on wedding day, it’s not always the only reason women request a boudoir photo session. I love it when a client tells me that she’s doing this for herself because she wants to look back on these images 10, and 20 years from now and say, “Wow, I looked hot!” Some of my clients have just lost a ton of weight so they want to celebrate with a photo session with me. Others want my help to create beautiful images of their changing body as they get closer to their baby’s due date. Most of my clients are nurses who work super long hours taking care of others that they don’t always have the time to take care of themselves. So, this is their day to be well-taken care of. Everyone has their own reason for wanting to do a boudoir photo shoot. Whatever your reason, I know it is meaningful to you, and I want to help you celebrate your day in grand style!

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9. BOUDOIR PHOTOGRAPHY IS EXPENSIVE: FALSE AND TRUE!

There’s a Colorado Springs Boudoir photographer for every budget … Like anything else you buy, the better the quality the more it costs. For me, I’m not just selling images, I am offering a luxe experience … The images I create are a byproduct of the overall experience. I want you to walk away from your photo shoot feeling more confident than before you arrived. Boudoir photography is worth every penny and is best executed by a professional. As a photographer, I feel like your self confidence is in my hands. This is so much more than photos to me!  I would never want someone to use a cheap photographer and end up in self loathing and regret, which is why we are now offering payment plans! You are worth the investment!

10. BOUDOIR PHOTOGRAPHY IS NOT FOR SHY GIRLS: False!

 I’ve photographed hundreds of different types of women and I never know what I get until after their hair and makeup is done by one of my professional hair and makeup artists. Yes, everyone is nervous when they first arrive for their session— I get nervous, too! It’s just part of who I am. But, once the hair and makeup is done, it awakens something inside them that maybe they have never seen before or have lost sight of it some time ago. I’ve had a teacher who totally surprised me! She walked in shy, but walked out looking and feeling like a model who belonged on the cover of a magazine. When she saw her pictures, she was beyond thrilled She couldn’t believe it was her. Another one of my shy clients looked so hot that her husband took her “little black book” (an album of 20 of her favorite images) that she gifted to him and showed it to all his co-workers, “Look at MY wife!” Remember, this is an experience for you to cherish. That’s why I do what I do.

*to inquire about your own session please visit www.melissabriellephotography.com

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  1. Samantha Jessup

    February 15th, 2018 at 8:53 pm

    I love love love this! I love boudoir images of real women anyway because generally you can see how beautiful they feel and how empowered the session makes them. I have seen so many beautiful boudoir images in sweaters even. Anyone on the fence should hire a good professional and do this for themselves!

  2. Sarah

    February 15th, 2018 at 8:57 pm

    Lovely pictures! I love how you spoke to the fact that you’ve done boudoir in all types of apparel -whatever the client feels comfortable and good in. Awesome!

  3. Brenda

    February 15th, 2018 at 8:58 pm

    Interesting post, I think my favorite part is when you talk about it not just being for the man but for the woman!

  4. Jennie Crate

    February 15th, 2018 at 10:33 pm

    This is a great list of myths!

  5. Adena

    February 15th, 2018 at 11:27 pm

    These are beautiful and everything you said is oh so true!

  6. Jenae

    February 15th, 2018 at 11:45 pm

    Such a beautiful Collection of Boudoir photos! All these women are do gorgeous! Love all the info and you provided!

  7. Kathryn

    February 15th, 2018 at 11:50 pm

    Love that you addressed all the common myths about boudoir! Great points and stunning images!

  8. Laura P

    February 16th, 2018 at 12:02 am

    Love these tips about not only what boudoir is but what it isn’t. As women it is so difficult to love ourselves as we are but the men who love us do love us as we are. Flaws and all.

  9. Justyna Butler

    February 16th, 2018 at 2:55 am

    Those are excellent answers to all those questions!!! Thanks for sharing!!

  10. ginny

    February 16th, 2018 at 5:19 am

    Umm… these images are KILLER! love your facts too! I need to hire you sometime!

  11. mgabriel

    February 18th, 2018 at 4:41 am

    Well goodness thats the greatest compliment! Thank you! <3

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